Assalamualaikum..
Nak menyambut orang baru ni memang excited, be it anak kedua ke so on and so forth, persediaannya tetap rancak macam biasa cuma kali ni lebih bijak memilih apa yang perlu dan tak perlu sebab dah ada sikit pengalaman.
Ni checklist aku. Actually ada buat dalam excel spreadsheet sebab lagi senang buat budgetted cost and actual cost so that takde lah terlebih membazir. Boleh keep track on items yang tak beli lagi summore. :)
Sekarang dah almost 26th weeks, boleh dikatakan semua barang keperluan baby dah disediakan. Laa.. sangat. This is based on my checklist la sebenarnya sebab maybe keperluan lain parents lain-lain kan.
Senarai barang baby baru lahir
Bakul baju baby
Baju tidur panjang
Baju lengan pendek
Baju lubang-lubang
Rompers
Bib
Barut
Bedung baby
Towel
Sapu tangan
Stokin, mittens & booties
Detergent baby untuk cuci baju
Grooming
Tungku baby
Changing mat
Wet tissue
Botol spray
Baby bath, baby shampoo, lotion,
Baby oil - sleeping
Minyak telon
Nappy rash cream
Vicks
Ubat cuci pusat
Grooming kit (ketip kuku, brush, sikat)
Cotton buds & cotton ball
Feeding
Botol susu
Pacifier
Pencuci botol
Others
Termometer
Diaper bag
Memandangkan anak pertama aku tak kisah pasal botol, so aku assume yang nombor dua ni pun maybe sama la kot. Ada certain babies yang tak serasi dengan botol, so kena try and error. Jadi, untuk kes macam ni beli set botol starter pack terus maybe akan jadi satu bentuk pembaziran pulak. Tak perlu beli banyak2 sekali gus.
Then ada jugak certain babies yang ada kulit sensitive. Jadi untuk mandian maybe kena beli set khas untuk snsitif skin macam buds, sebamed dll yang agak mahal. Maybe boleh try travelling pack dulu untuk tahu baby serasi ke tak dengan jenama lain yang popular macam pureen, johnson baby etc.
Mittens & booties pulak memang banyak yang comel2.Tapi tak perlu beli terlalu banyak sebab by the time 3 bulan mittens tu dah tak pakai sangat sebab nak bagi baby familiar dengan saraf motor tangan dia etc. Tapi kalau stokin and barut tu okey lah beli lebih sikit sebab at least sampai umur setahun boleh pakai lagi.
Tu jelah yang terlintas sekarang. Next new mom checklist pulak.
Daa~
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Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Pengalaman bersalin
Nak masuk setahun dah aku bersalin. Hehe sekejapnya macam tak terasa. Dulu sebelum kahwin selalu kena senggugut sampai guling-guling tahan sakit. Lepas kahwin period sekali lepastu pregnant. Heaven gila tak period lama, so tak payah hadap senggugut tiap bulan.
Seronok mengandung anak pertama sebab semua pengalaman tu belum pernah rasa. Cukup 39 minggu 5 hari dah keluar tanda.
Ahad, 16 Disember 2012
8.00am : masuk toilet ada darah dan lendir warna pink. Tapi masih tak sakit. Cuma berdebar sebab tak lama lagi kena beranak -_-
10.00am : ada sakit sikit tapi tak sesakit macam senggugut. Aku ingat doc yang aku selalu pergi checkup cakap contraction ni yang betul2 punya adalah sakit sampai aku tak boleh nak senyum dah. Adik aku boleh buat lawak suruh aku senyum time tu. Obviously masih boleh ketawa tebahak2 lagi.. Ko tunggu! Parents aku insists pergi hospital jugak nak cek kot2 kena tahan wad. Masa ni boleh jalan lagi, boleh senyum dan berlagak normal. Sebab dah ada 'show' so kena la pergi cek. Sesi selukan yang pertama nurse cakap baru buka 1cm. Boleh balik rumah dulu. Bila sakit selang 5minit secara konsisten datang hospital cepat. Ok, balik lah kiter... Lega sikit hehe
2.00pm : dah mula rasa sakit macam bedenyut2. Setiap kali nak mula sakit aku cuak dah.. Yela macam roller coaster kejap sakit, kejap tak sakit. Tapi masih boleh senyum jgn risau haha. Aku nak relaks, ajak adik aku teman aku tidur. Sebenarnya suruh dia catat selang masa contraction aku haha.. Sakit dah weh tapi ok lagi. Konsisten setiap 7 minit. Ok la kan stil boleh tidur.
8.00pm : sakit dah tahap macam senggugut aku. Aku ingatkan ni la paling max sakitnye so aku rasa eh xde la sakit sangat. Lol.. Ko tunggu!
8.30pm : aku duduk di pac room hospital serdang. Nurse seluk lagi dah buka 4cm. Dia suruh salin baju pink. Masa ni boleh jalan laju lagi sampai kena tegur tak sakit ke jalan laju. Hu... Setiap kali kena seluk kan depa pakai pelincir apa tah aku rimas so aku akan pergi toilet basuh. Tu lah yang last aku boleh jalan pi toilet -_-
10.00pm : sakit aku dah makin menggila. Muka pun dah start bekerut-kerut tahap tak boleh senyum. Aku baring je kat katil tu. Baring mengiring tak kena, telentang lagi la tak kena. Ya allah... Aku tak henti2 zikir (la'ila ha illa anta, subhanaka inni kuntu minazzolimin), benafas elok2, ada masanya aku bawak minda aku ke dunia lain kurang sikit rasa sakit tapi masa tak boleh fokus ikut hati nak jerit je tapi aku masih waras kot nak buat benda macam tu. Sampai tahap menggeletar badan aku masa sakit contraction tu.
Isnin, 17 Disember 2012
2.00 pagi : masih layan sakit tapi keadaan makin sunyi so boleh cuba bernafas betul dan bawa fikiran menerawang ke benda lain dari dok fikir pasal sakit. Sakit memang sakit tapi aku dah rasa macam terlalu sakit sampai badan aku dah lali. So just embrace it. Tiba2...... POP!!! Lepastu dengar bunyi baby nanges. Terkejut aku orang depan katil teberanak dalam PAC room! Ni macam bilik observation je sebelum tolak ke labour room. The mom tak bunyi ke sakit ke apa? Tak sakit la kot kan.. Tak panggil doctor pun? Erkk.. Lepastu doc datang la sebab baru je tadi cek dia baru buka 6cm. Anak first lak tu. Doc cakap awak beranak sendiri tengok ni habis koyak rabak. Ok lupakan kisah dia. Ni kisah aku wahahahaaa...
3.00am : sakit dah sangat gila tapi masih boleh bbm mak aku. Mama tak tidur sembahyang the whole night doa untuk aku. Sobs! Hurm lepas tu tiba2 datang sakit macam betul2 nak meneran dah. Ya allah memang aku rasa nak meneran. Terus panggil nurse suruh cek bukaan. Tak rela aku bersalin dalam pac room ni. Baru 6cm. Lamanyaaaa.... Aku ingat dah 8cm ke.. Huhu.. Sebenarnya sebelum tu aku stick kat 4cm punya lama so nurse cakap meh dia tolong bukakkan laluan. Dia godek2 bawah tu sampai jadi 6cm. Jangan tanya aku macam mana. Aku pun tak tau. Tapi tak sakit pun seluk. Nak compare dengan contraction macam kena gigit semut je. Sakit makin menggila dan ni first time aku ter 'shee shee' atas katil masa contraction! Lenjun kain pink aku. Nurse datang salinkan. -_- tq nurse baiknyaa... Bukan sekali ok 3kali!!! Ohmy... Apa la aku ni. Pemegang katil besi tu macam nak patah aku pegang masa datang contraction.
5.00am : tiba2 dengar bunyi POP!! Teburai air keluar dan aku yakin ketuban aku dah pecah. Sekali lagi nurse datang salin kain aku. Huhu... Dia cakap lepasni bukak cepat sikit kot sebab ketuban dah pecah. Ok dah 7cm. Husband aku akan touch down kl dalam pukul 8.30 pagi. Allah gerakkan hati dia kot nak balik awal sikit. Sebab due aku patutnya 20 Disember. Dia ingat nak balik awal sikit so that boleh teman aku sementara tunggu 20 Disember tu. Tapi Allah dah rancang sebaiknya...
9.00am : orang lain semua dah masuk labour room. Aku je masih disitu sampai nurse pun dah betukar shift. Sedih ok! Aku cakap kat nurse tolak jela saya dalam labour room. Dia cakap kat labour room pun sama je. Tapi dorang tolak jugak aku masuk labour room dan panggil husband aku. Sedihnya aku cakap dia masih on the way from epot! Tak pelaaa.... Masa ni masih 7cm -_-
9.05am : dalam labour room dah. Macam biasa sakit teketar2 bila datang contraction. Aku tak de amek ape2 ubat tahan sakit ke, gas ke apa all the way natural. Bukan aku taknak, takdak sapa offer pun -_- bolehhh?? Haha... Tapi aku yakin pasti boleh badan aku terima semua ni. Tiba2 nurse cakap dah full 10cm dan boleh push. Dalam masa depa sediakan lampu, alatan bagai, nampak husband aku masuk. Macam dapat semangat untuk push ok! Mana 8cm & 9cm? Tetiba 10 cm terus! Push lah 2 - 3 kali. Jangan risau bab push aku dah khatam berapa bijik buku tah takot punya pasal. Doc ckp aku pandai push ok kembang jap.
9.38am : keluar baby dan sakit semua hilang terus. Memang ada buat episiotomy so that koyak tak terlalu besar. Lepastu jahit dan cucuk anti kancing gigi masa tengah jahit tu. Apalah sangat sakit jahit memang tak rasa sakit lah sebab sebelum ni sakit macam nak gila. Apapun pengalaman ni amat berharga untuk aku.
Tak sangka dari setitis sperma dan sebiji ovum boleh jadi manusia. Badan perempuan ni sangat kuat sampai boleh keluarkan seorang manusia lain. Lelaki ado??? Haha... Apa pun aku sangat besyukur. Tapi kalau tanya aku nak ke lagi??? Erkkk nanti2 dulu lah kot haha...
Patutla doktor aku cakap anak sulung ni special dan sebenarnya paling disayangi sebab nak keluarkan tu selalunya payah dan lama. Betoi kot.. Tapi tak taula kan.. Kalau anak ramai mana boleh pilih kasih oi..
Seronok mengandung anak pertama sebab semua pengalaman tu belum pernah rasa. Cukup 39 minggu 5 hari dah keluar tanda.
Ahad, 16 Disember 2012
8.00am : masuk toilet ada darah dan lendir warna pink. Tapi masih tak sakit. Cuma berdebar sebab tak lama lagi kena beranak -_-
10.00am : ada sakit sikit tapi tak sesakit macam senggugut. Aku ingat doc yang aku selalu pergi checkup cakap contraction ni yang betul2 punya adalah sakit sampai aku tak boleh nak senyum dah. Adik aku boleh buat lawak suruh aku senyum time tu. Obviously masih boleh ketawa tebahak2 lagi.. Ko tunggu! Parents aku insists pergi hospital jugak nak cek kot2 kena tahan wad. Masa ni boleh jalan lagi, boleh senyum dan berlagak normal. Sebab dah ada 'show' so kena la pergi cek. Sesi selukan yang pertama nurse cakap baru buka 1cm. Boleh balik rumah dulu. Bila sakit selang 5minit secara konsisten datang hospital cepat. Ok, balik lah kiter... Lega sikit hehe
2.00pm : dah mula rasa sakit macam bedenyut2. Setiap kali nak mula sakit aku cuak dah.. Yela macam roller coaster kejap sakit, kejap tak sakit. Tapi masih boleh senyum jgn risau haha. Aku nak relaks, ajak adik aku teman aku tidur. Sebenarnya suruh dia catat selang masa contraction aku haha.. Sakit dah weh tapi ok lagi. Konsisten setiap 7 minit. Ok la kan stil boleh tidur.
8.00pm : sakit dah tahap macam senggugut aku. Aku ingatkan ni la paling max sakitnye so aku rasa eh xde la sakit sangat. Lol.. Ko tunggu!
8.30pm : aku duduk di pac room hospital serdang. Nurse seluk lagi dah buka 4cm. Dia suruh salin baju pink. Masa ni boleh jalan laju lagi sampai kena tegur tak sakit ke jalan laju. Hu... Setiap kali kena seluk kan depa pakai pelincir apa tah aku rimas so aku akan pergi toilet basuh. Tu lah yang last aku boleh jalan pi toilet -_-
10.00pm : sakit aku dah makin menggila. Muka pun dah start bekerut-kerut tahap tak boleh senyum. Aku baring je kat katil tu. Baring mengiring tak kena, telentang lagi la tak kena. Ya allah... Aku tak henti2 zikir (la'ila ha illa anta, subhanaka inni kuntu minazzolimin), benafas elok2, ada masanya aku bawak minda aku ke dunia lain kurang sikit rasa sakit tapi masa tak boleh fokus ikut hati nak jerit je tapi aku masih waras kot nak buat benda macam tu. Sampai tahap menggeletar badan aku masa sakit contraction tu.
Isnin, 17 Disember 2012
2.00 pagi : masih layan sakit tapi keadaan makin sunyi so boleh cuba bernafas betul dan bawa fikiran menerawang ke benda lain dari dok fikir pasal sakit. Sakit memang sakit tapi aku dah rasa macam terlalu sakit sampai badan aku dah lali. So just embrace it. Tiba2...... POP!!! Lepastu dengar bunyi baby nanges. Terkejut aku orang depan katil teberanak dalam PAC room! Ni macam bilik observation je sebelum tolak ke labour room. The mom tak bunyi ke sakit ke apa? Tak sakit la kot kan.. Tak panggil doctor pun? Erkk.. Lepastu doc datang la sebab baru je tadi cek dia baru buka 6cm. Anak first lak tu. Doc cakap awak beranak sendiri tengok ni habis koyak rabak. Ok lupakan kisah dia. Ni kisah aku wahahahaaa...
3.00am : sakit dah sangat gila tapi masih boleh bbm mak aku. Mama tak tidur sembahyang the whole night doa untuk aku. Sobs! Hurm lepas tu tiba2 datang sakit macam betul2 nak meneran dah. Ya allah memang aku rasa nak meneran. Terus panggil nurse suruh cek bukaan. Tak rela aku bersalin dalam pac room ni. Baru 6cm. Lamanyaaaa.... Aku ingat dah 8cm ke.. Huhu.. Sebenarnya sebelum tu aku stick kat 4cm punya lama so nurse cakap meh dia tolong bukakkan laluan. Dia godek2 bawah tu sampai jadi 6cm. Jangan tanya aku macam mana. Aku pun tak tau. Tapi tak sakit pun seluk. Nak compare dengan contraction macam kena gigit semut je. Sakit makin menggila dan ni first time aku ter 'shee shee' atas katil masa contraction! Lenjun kain pink aku. Nurse datang salinkan. -_- tq nurse baiknyaa... Bukan sekali ok 3kali!!! Ohmy... Apa la aku ni. Pemegang katil besi tu macam nak patah aku pegang masa datang contraction.
5.00am : tiba2 dengar bunyi POP!! Teburai air keluar dan aku yakin ketuban aku dah pecah. Sekali lagi nurse datang salin kain aku. Huhu... Dia cakap lepasni bukak cepat sikit kot sebab ketuban dah pecah. Ok dah 7cm. Husband aku akan touch down kl dalam pukul 8.30 pagi. Allah gerakkan hati dia kot nak balik awal sikit. Sebab due aku patutnya 20 Disember. Dia ingat nak balik awal sikit so that boleh teman aku sementara tunggu 20 Disember tu. Tapi Allah dah rancang sebaiknya...
9.00am : orang lain semua dah masuk labour room. Aku je masih disitu sampai nurse pun dah betukar shift. Sedih ok! Aku cakap kat nurse tolak jela saya dalam labour room. Dia cakap kat labour room pun sama je. Tapi dorang tolak jugak aku masuk labour room dan panggil husband aku. Sedihnya aku cakap dia masih on the way from epot! Tak pelaaa.... Masa ni masih 7cm -_-
9.05am : dalam labour room dah. Macam biasa sakit teketar2 bila datang contraction. Aku tak de amek ape2 ubat tahan sakit ke, gas ke apa all the way natural. Bukan aku taknak, takdak sapa offer pun -_- bolehhh?? Haha... Tapi aku yakin pasti boleh badan aku terima semua ni. Tiba2 nurse cakap dah full 10cm dan boleh push. Dalam masa depa sediakan lampu, alatan bagai, nampak husband aku masuk. Macam dapat semangat untuk push ok! Mana 8cm & 9cm? Tetiba 10 cm terus! Push lah 2 - 3 kali. Jangan risau bab push aku dah khatam berapa bijik buku tah takot punya pasal. Doc ckp aku pandai push ok kembang jap.
9.38am : keluar baby dan sakit semua hilang terus. Memang ada buat episiotomy so that koyak tak terlalu besar. Lepastu jahit dan cucuk anti kancing gigi masa tengah jahit tu. Apalah sangat sakit jahit memang tak rasa sakit lah sebab sebelum ni sakit macam nak gila. Apapun pengalaman ni amat berharga untuk aku.
Tak sangka dari setitis sperma dan sebiji ovum boleh jadi manusia. Badan perempuan ni sangat kuat sampai boleh keluarkan seorang manusia lain. Lelaki ado??? Haha... Apa pun aku sangat besyukur. Tapi kalau tanya aku nak ke lagi??? Erkkk nanti2 dulu lah kot haha...
Patutla doktor aku cakap anak sulung ni special dan sebenarnya paling disayangi sebab nak keluarkan tu selalunya payah dan lama. Betoi kot.. Tapi tak taula kan.. Kalau anak ramai mana boleh pilih kasih oi..
Friday, September 27, 2013
Love 101
Since the pass 8 years together u never failed to cheer me up whenever I felt down. Thank you my love, my bestfriend, my crime partner for always be there. Love u to the max!
Friday, September 6, 2013
I love her
I remember the first time I decided to start blogging, I wanted to write about my pregnancy progress. Being me, as not so istiqomah person memanglah semuanya kelautttt... I did post something when I feel like blogging, leave it for sometimes and come back when I have something in mind. Bad, bad me. I should keep track with my life often, I guess after this. Really need to realise that I am getting older and the clock is ticking yo!
It had been a while... Without realising that we almost reach the end of 2013. I never know for the last 10 years that I'm having a kid and a handsome husband (at least in my eyes) by now. Really, I still feel like a kid. Haha... I think I just said goodbye to highschool like... Yesterday. Btw, SPM was 2004 silly. Almost 10 years already. I miss the time we played tennis, bbq-ing with homeroom siblings, being in a class where each n everyone of us love to organise so called party (read : bbq) until get scolded by our homeroom teacher coz still tak sedar diri nak spm. Rindu gila semua perasaan tu. I want to sit at my desk where everyone during the time is there. How I wish..... To cheat again in pjk class, taking short cut during morning run and get scolded.
I don't know that being an adult is quite a tough job. Now that I have a kid, I have put a thought on her education, marriage, and every tiny details such as the best milk she should consume, whether she got bitten by mosquitoes and all. Looking back at her pictures back then made me love this tiny creatures even more. Now I realise why my dad keep saying that in his eyes, I am still his baby girl. I think I would feel the same for my baby too. She is forever my baby girl to me. I love her with all my life.
I love u so much my baby girl. Don't grow up so fast! Hihi
It had been a while... Without realising that we almost reach the end of 2013. I never know for the last 10 years that I'm having a kid and a handsome husband (at least in my eyes) by now. Really, I still feel like a kid. Haha... I think I just said goodbye to highschool like... Yesterday. Btw, SPM was 2004 silly. Almost 10 years already. I miss the time we played tennis, bbq-ing with homeroom siblings, being in a class where each n everyone of us love to organise so called party (read : bbq) until get scolded by our homeroom teacher coz still tak sedar diri nak spm. Rindu gila semua perasaan tu. I want to sit at my desk where everyone during the time is there. How I wish..... To cheat again in pjk class, taking short cut during morning run and get scolded.
I don't know that being an adult is quite a tough job. Now that I have a kid, I have put a thought on her education, marriage, and every tiny details such as the best milk she should consume, whether she got bitten by mosquitoes and all. Looking back at her pictures back then made me love this tiny creatures even more. Now I realise why my dad keep saying that in his eyes, I am still his baby girl. I think I would feel the same for my baby too. She is forever my baby girl to me. I love her with all my life.
I love u so much my baby girl. Don't grow up so fast! Hihi
Thursday, September 5, 2013
Finally, it is not happening!
Assalamualaikum w.b.t,
My baby girl is almost 9 months old and she gets cheekier each day. Don't even know if I use the right wordings. Haha.. Since my last delivery my period was soooo hanky panky it annoyed me sometimes. NEVER a time she visits me on regular basis as 'she' used to before I got married. Hmmph... After getting married she only visits me once haha.. Yelar, I got pregnant immediately lol.
So... Now the period is not regular. Sometimes once a month, sometimes twice, sometimes only three days and sometimes up to 15 days. It is so confusing especially when u need to do family planning. U know what i mean.
After my first jab for family planning right after I finished my confinement, we did not take any protection at all. I did not continue the next jab because i feel that it did not suit me.
Oh hello we both study biology in school so lets do natural planning haha yeah right now u think u re right la kan.. See later how it goes...
So here comes the moment of truth when I showed simptoms of pregnancy the past few weeks. I feel bloated, always rushed to toilet to pee, my period did not visit me anymore, and u name it! I have it all, babe.
I couldn't take it any longer, bought the rm5.90 pregnancy test kit and......
We are not pregnant. Phewww.. ;)
Hubs says in our family quality should come first. We need to raise our children with full commitment and responsibility. We are now still PJJ and we really could not afford to have another child at this moment. So yeah.. Lets wait for another 3 or 5 years, perhaps? For amni to have little brother and sister, no?
However, Allah s.w.t has the best plan i know, we could only plan..... KUN FAYA KUN
We really are grateful for whatever that comes into our life.
My baby girl is almost 9 months old and she gets cheekier each day. Don't even know if I use the right wordings. Haha.. Since my last delivery my period was soooo hanky panky it annoyed me sometimes. NEVER a time she visits me on regular basis as 'she' used to before I got married. Hmmph... After getting married she only visits me once haha.. Yelar, I got pregnant immediately lol.
So... Now the period is not regular. Sometimes once a month, sometimes twice, sometimes only three days and sometimes up to 15 days. It is so confusing especially when u need to do family planning. U know what i mean.
After my first jab for family planning right after I finished my confinement, we did not take any protection at all. I did not continue the next jab because i feel that it did not suit me.
Oh hello we both study biology in school so lets do natural planning haha yeah right now u think u re right la kan.. See later how it goes...
So here comes the moment of truth when I showed simptoms of pregnancy the past few weeks. I feel bloated, always rushed to toilet to pee, my period did not visit me anymore, and u name it! I have it all, babe.
I couldn't take it any longer, bought the rm5.90 pregnancy test kit and......
We are not pregnant. Phewww.. ;)
Hubs says in our family quality should come first. We need to raise our children with full commitment and responsibility. We are now still PJJ and we really could not afford to have another child at this moment. So yeah.. Lets wait for another 3 or 5 years, perhaps? For amni to have little brother and sister, no?
However, Allah s.w.t has the best plan i know, we could only plan..... KUN FAYA KUN
We really are grateful for whatever that comes into our life.
Friday, August 30, 2013
Count your blessings
Hi,
Amni had been admitted for a day and a half due to high fever. I must admit the service was fast and that's it. I paid rm1.50 for the same service at the government hospital and rm1,556.60 at KPJ literally laa (coz I'm not the one who paid, the insurance company, of course).
Bersyukur lah di Malaysia ni ada option untuk dapatkan rawatan perubatan. Kalau tak mampu masih boleh dapatkan rawatan yang jauh lebih baik di hospital kerajaan. Bagi yang ada insurans dan yang mampu, boleh memilih untuk ke hospital swasta supaya boleh beri ruang kepada yang kurang mampu untuk dapatkan rawatan lebih segera.
Berbanding di Amerika Syarikat, kalau takde insurans cover, takde at least 100usd dalam bank memang tak boleh dapatkan rawatan. Hari ni aku bersyukur sebab dilahirkan oleh ibu bapa aku, jadi ahli keluarga aku, jadi rakyat Malaysia, berpeluang jadi ibu, kahwin dengan lelaki baik dan terlalu banyak anugerah yang perlu aku syukuri. ALHAMDULILLAH TERIMA KASIH ALLAH kerana aku bukan dilahirkan oleh rakyat di negara bergolak dan terutama sekali bukan dilahirkan dalam keadaan kafir.
Be grateful, count your blessings! Selamat hari merdeka, Malaysia Berdaulat Tanah Tumpahnya Darahku. Ok bye kena pergi kerja. Ya Allah bersyukur masih ada kerja ;)
Amni had been admitted for a day and a half due to high fever. I must admit the service was fast and that's it. I paid rm1.50 for the same service at the government hospital and rm1,556.60 at KPJ literally laa (coz I'm not the one who paid, the insurance company, of course).
Bersyukur lah di Malaysia ni ada option untuk dapatkan rawatan perubatan. Kalau tak mampu masih boleh dapatkan rawatan yang jauh lebih baik di hospital kerajaan. Bagi yang ada insurans dan yang mampu, boleh memilih untuk ke hospital swasta supaya boleh beri ruang kepada yang kurang mampu untuk dapatkan rawatan lebih segera.
Berbanding di Amerika Syarikat, kalau takde insurans cover, takde at least 100usd dalam bank memang tak boleh dapatkan rawatan. Hari ni aku bersyukur sebab dilahirkan oleh ibu bapa aku, jadi ahli keluarga aku, jadi rakyat Malaysia, berpeluang jadi ibu, kahwin dengan lelaki baik dan terlalu banyak anugerah yang perlu aku syukuri. ALHAMDULILLAH TERIMA KASIH ALLAH kerana aku bukan dilahirkan oleh rakyat di negara bergolak dan terutama sekali bukan dilahirkan dalam keadaan kafir.
Be grateful, count your blessings! Selamat hari merdeka, Malaysia Berdaulat Tanah Tumpahnya Darahku. Ok bye kena pergi kerja. Ya Allah bersyukur masih ada kerja ;)
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Coz babies are sooo fragile...
Currently at KPJ Kajang coz my princess admitted due to high fever. She's 8months old, tak tumbuh gigi lagi, baru pandai meniti dan memanjat, masih belum berjalan. Mungkin demam sbb nak tumbuh gigi? Hentahlaaaa... Every month demam sampai bila dia tak demam mula la aku counting days bila dia nk demam.
Her dad's turn to take his AL. He's in charge to take care of our precious for at least a week. Hehe... :) glad when he's around. Mommy goes to work as usual but today mommy feels really sleepy. Alhamdulillah based on the blood test everything should be fine. Dengue negative, no sign of pneumonia, no ear infection a.k.a otitis media and so on.. So, mommy boleh pegi kerja dengan tenang. Let papa handle u this time.
Her dad's turn to take his AL. He's in charge to take care of our precious for at least a week. Hehe... :) glad when he's around. Mommy goes to work as usual but today mommy feels really sleepy. Alhamdulillah based on the blood test everything should be fine. Dengue negative, no sign of pneumonia, no ear infection a.k.a otitis media and so on.. So, mommy boleh pegi kerja dengan tenang. Let papa handle u this time.
Love u baby. Get well soon!
Friday, August 23, 2013
Nest
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| Lucky number 25 |
Finally rumah dah siap. Supposed siap June 2014 but this is August 2013 and 100% completed. My fear that we might end up choosing the wrong developer is all gone! So happy with the outcome. Imagine we only did the house hunting online through iProperty and made deals with the developer through emails and phone calls but really it was risky, however it is not bad though. Save money and time some more but please, if u feels no confident with the developer, DO NOT PROCEED.
This is our investment house. We wouldn't be staying here though, because we have other commitment in life. Yea, right. Haha.. So alhamdulillah one of the wishlist finally come true. One advice, I would suggest buying the freehold property compared to leasehold property if u plan to let ur child, grandchild n d list goes on to have the house later when ure no longer live. True story. If u buy the leasehold the maximum u can stay is 99 years. Soooo....rugi! The government can demolish d house after the lease period is over.
Right now in 2013 the rate in Bandar Baru Bangi for a standard 20x70 double storey house is 700k. It is leasehold property, btw. We sooooo can't afford that much at our age, no? At least for me. I don't even know whether my child can afford to buy a house or not when the time comes. However, that's another story la. This house is not located in Bangi, not even nearrr 700k and it is a freehold property.
For amni, it is our house, yo! Mommy can't wait to decorate your room pumpkin! Haha
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| Hello neighbours! |
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| Master bedroom in showhouse |
Sunday, March 10, 2013
Keluarkan KWSP Akaun 2 beli rumah
Disclaimer : Prosedur ini terpakai untuk pembelian rumah dari developer sahaja.
Kenapa beli rumah dari developer lebih untung? First and foremost, tentulah kalau beli dari developer dapat promo snp dan yuran guaman free of charge. Let say beli dari individu, lawyer fees will be borned by the purchaser la. Banyak tau! Dahla bayar ikot harga rumah. Ada la pengiraan dia cemana kan.
Nak beli rumah step 1 kena la ada rumah yang nak dibeli. Tentukan rumah tu dibeli dari developer atau rumah dari orang perseorangan. Meaning rumah secondhand macam tu. Secondly, kalau beli dari developer selalunya kena bayar booking fees range dalam RM 1,000 tanda kita berminat nak reserve rumah tu. Chop la lot mane nak beli. Deal harga semua la kan. Don't worry this booking fees akan ditolak dari 10% downpayment nanti. Macam biase la.. After that check dengan bank boleh lulus loan tak. Unless la banyak sangat duit nak beli cash kan! Beli cash kompom kena kejar dengan income tax. Huahaha.. Jage2 ada mata yang memerhati. Eh tetibe..
Loan boleh check dengan banyak bank. So, choose the one who give the best offer in terms of interest rate la sebab long term loan ni interest rate memang banyak difference walaupun beza -2.2% dengan -2.4% from the Base Lending Rate (BLR). Loan dah lulus, lawyer akan uruskan SNP (Sales and purchase agreement). Sebab beli dari developer so all these costs FOC la ok. Cuma kena bayar disbursement dalam RM 600 ++ macam tu. Then sign SNP, bawak pegi bank dan tup tap tup tap tunggula dalam sebulan or mungkin lebih cepat bank akan keluarkan offer letter to disburse the loan amount. Sign ape bagai lepas tu tunggu je la bile nak start bayar. Basic step jela.. sebenrnya banyak lagi .. MRTA bagai tak sentuh pun lagi but don't worry deal jelah dengan ur developer. Diorang memang akan membantu especially for first timer macam kami ni ler..
So dokumen ape nak bagi KWSP so that duit dalam akaun 2 boleh dikeluarkan untuk bayar macam-macam ni? Semuanya perlu dikemukakan dalam original dan salinan.
1) I/C
2) Offer letter bank
3) Sales and purchase agreement
4) Surat nikah (kes macam aku la.. loan name husband je but ownership dalam SNP our both names)
5) Bank statement yang nak dimasukkan duit tu
Proses paling lama 2 minggu. Tapi selalunya kurang dari 6 hari bekerja. Cepat dan pantas gitu. So kalau 2 nama dalam SNP dedua boleh keluar EPF based on 10% dari harga rumah. Tak keluarkan immediately pun takpe.. Maybe u don't need the money to pay deposit tapi make sure kalau nak keluarkan untuk renovation ke in the future mesti keluarkan dalam tempoh 2 tahun dari tarikh SNP. Lepas tu da takleh keluar dah okey..
Contohnya rumah RM300k. 10% maksimum boleh keluar ialah RM30k. Wife dah keluar RM10k. Husband entitle to keluarkan lagi RM20k je dari dia punya EPF akaun 2. Nak tau duit dah masuk ke belum sila check status kat website i-akaun kwsp memasing. Kalau in process boleh jadi dalam seminggu lagi. Kalau dah tulis lulus esoknye dah dapat duit dalam akaun. Easy as ABC. So goodluck!
Of wedding anniversary
9 March 2013 mark our 1st anniversary as husband and wife lepas almost 7 years ++ together. I feel so blessed for what I have now. Gotta be bersyukur sangat. Walaupun weekend husband and wife je tapi tetap bersyukur sebab husband balik every week compare dengan masa dia kat Miri sebelum ni. Cuma balik every 2 weeks :(
All I can say is I love him so much and no one could replace his special place in my heart. My perfect imperfect husband. Argh the feeling of calling ur love ones as husband. Indescribable feeling. Thanks for the lovely gift even I know u re not that romantic type of person. Never remember my birthday also until get scold everytime. Haha.. Tu dulu lah. Now he's the first person to remember my birthday. Oh btw thanks facebook!! -_-
You gave me this...
And u said it is becoz I'm stinky. Noiceeee....!! Anyway, I still love this and love u. And most importantly, you gave this precious little girl to teman me when I was all alone and u re not around. Thanks love!!
Breastpump Unimom Mezzo
Seronok dapat breastfeed baby selama ni sebab tau she gets the best out of me. Tapi of course lah kena ada breastpump sebab nak bagi bekal dia bawak nursery. :)
"Benda mahal tak semestinya bagus. Benda bagus tak semestinya mahal".. Eheyyy.. macam pernah dengar tapi di mana ya..?? Breastpump yang aku guna Unimom Mezzo. Breastpump manual je pun. Memang tak pernah dengar tapi bila search kat internet dan blog2 breastpump yang murah dan bagus mesti ada review pasal Unimom Mezzo. Boleh takkk.. nak yang murah je. Hihi..
First time nak guna memang tak keluar susu langsung. Oh my! Dalam hati cakap demmit pam murah memang macam ni ke? Tipula semua review2 bagai tu. Harus pakai yang letrikk kekononnn.. Sebenarnya aku terpaksa guna masa awal-awal bersalin lagi sebab baby admitted nicu for second time due to chicken pox. Dua hari perah pakai tangan ok! Naik lenguh bahu ni padahal breastpump ade je dah beli cuma tak pandai pasang dan pakai. Cam tuuuttt je alasan. Haha..
Lepas tu saje-saje lah try test pakai sebab dah lenguh perah pakai tangan. Tengok2 laju je kua susu. Plus tak sakit langsung pun. Aku tak tau lah kalau guna breastpump lain sakit tu macam mana tapi yang ni pump memang lembut je dan flow susu pun ok. Kalau miss B penuh, pam 5 minit pun dah dapat 5oz. Kebaikan manual breastpump ni aku boleh pam di mana-mana je. Dalam kereta, kat office, sebab tak payah berletrik bagai.
Banyak ke sikit susu yang di pam tu bagi aku bukan sebab breastpump. Kalau slalu stimulate dengan baby punya suction dekat miss B then susu pun akan lebih banyak keluar. Banyak atau kurang nye susu based on supply and demand. Kalau selalu susukan baby, insyaallah stok susu tak akan kurang. Pam pun jangan stress. Rileks je sedar2 dah penuh breastmilk storage tu.
See..??
Breastmilk memang aku tak letak dalam freezer sebab kesian kat baby mesti tak sedap minum susu beku yang dah dicairkan. Eh? So aku letak tempat fridge aje susu boleh tahan dalam 5 hingga 7 hari. Tiap-tiap hari mesti pump 4 botol untuk stok. So far, cukup lagi everytime hantar nursery. Bagi 16oz je umur dia 2 bulan ni dari pukul 8.30am sampai pukul 6.00pm masa ambik dia. Seronok pam malam-malam pukul 2 - 3 pagi sebab flow susu tu laju and cepat penuh botol. Hihi..
Tak ada susu formula yang setanding dengan susu ibu sebab hanya susu ibu yang mempunyai antibodi untuk ketahanan badan baby. Manusia TAK BOLEH cipta antibodi. It's all in your mind. Masa baby aku kena chicken pox memang aku nak bagi susu badan so that dia akan lebih kuat lawan virus campak tu. Alhamdulillah I manage to provide her with breastmilk every single day. Kalau new born kena chiken pox memang sangat bahaya sebab boleh kena paru-paru n otak dia. Bersyukur sangat it didn't happen to my baby. Aku cuma doa dia kuat lawan penyakit tu. So, admitted 9 days dan alhamdulillah sekarang dia la baby paling sihat dan nakaiii.. I'm the happiest mom in the whole world again. :)
And btw this baby is RM118 per unit. Just buy la ok if u got much cheaper price than the retail price. Tell ya it is worth every penny.
And btw this baby is RM118 per unit. Just buy la ok if u got much cheaper price than the retail price. Tell ya it is worth every penny.
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